Introduction
From an early age, our freedom to choose is systematically limited. Remember Kindergarten? You’re joyfully drawing when suddenly it's time to put the crayons down to read. If you insist on finishing your drawing, you’re labeled a "problem child." This scenario highlights how the ability to make choices is gradually suppressed, replaced by societal norms and expectations.
The Illusion of Right and Wrong
Schooling often creates an illusion that everything is black and white, right or wrong. But real life is far more nuanced. The choices we make should empower us in the moment, considering all pertinent conditions. Yet, we are conditioned to be "nice," "courteous," and "responsible" — attributes drilled into us to fit into predefined molds. While these traits have their place, they can undermine our ability to set boundaries and make empowering choices in the real world.
Choice: The Foundation of Empowerment
Every action we take is our choice. This idea might seem counterintuitive, but choice is the basis of empowerment. Even in situations that seem devoid of options, like Jesus on the cross, there is choice. Jesus chose to love unconditionally, regardless of the circumstances. This demonstrates that even in the most challenging moments, we have the power to choose our response.
Unconditional Love and Parental Relationships
We all have parents, and a profound way to exercise choice is by choosing to love our parents' "Heart of Gold" unconditionally. When we make this choice, we free ourselves from the suffering caused by conditional love. By choosing unconditional love, we step out of the victim mindset, realizing that we have the power to change our internal experience.
Choice as a Birthright
Choice is our birthright and the foundation of courage. It is essential for living a thriving life. A victim, by definition, has no choice. But when we embrace our ability to choose, we instantly move out of victimhood and into empowerment. This is a crucial aspect of the Mindfully Centered Approach (MCA) — recognizing that we always have a choice, no matter the situation.
Transforming Life Through Choice
When we fully embrace the power of choice, life changes. Suppression, injustice, and abandonment naturally flow through us and are replaced by thriving energy, gratitude, and a tremendous sense of purpose. By choosing what empowers us in the moment rather than adhering to rigid notions of right and wrong, we reclaim our power and live with authenticity and intention.
Conclusion
Choice is not just a concept; it is a practice of empowerment. It connects deeply with the Mindfully Centered Approach by aligning us with our true nature and purpose. Remember, every moment offers a choice. By embracing this power, we step into a life of empowerment, clarity, and unconditional love.
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